It Is Just In Your Head Girl!

It Is Just In Your Head Girl | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. Alamak, di bulan puasa ni, termeletupla pulak. Ceritanya tak perlu la diberitahu di sini but the pengajaran daripada peristiwa tu yang penting. Pengajaran untuk diriku sendiri yang suka meletup tak kira masa, di tempat tak tentu hala, serta semua yang membaca entry ini. 

This entry is specially dedicated to all sensitive people in this huge small world especially who love to be sensitive and respond to the sensitivity. I am one of them of course. We can show our sensitivity but acting out due to it is definitely dangerous -.-'

It is just in our head! i want to stress here that whatever fictional stuff, non-factual things we have in our head about other people is just in your head. We cannot be too sure of it because we as normal people cannot read other people's mind. 

We have to accept the fact that not everything we feel, we think is the actual truth of something. It is maybe be true and may be false. It is maybe true but there are other similar things are true too, which we cannot afford to prove it wrong. 

Even in Islam, there are 4 mazhabs and still we cannot say Mazhab Syafiee is right and Mazhab Hambali is wrong. It is not that we are cats who can differentiate between cat lovers and non cat lovers. We are just normal human beings, who are only capable of guessing and predicting. 

All the guesses and predictions are not confirmed yet. Just like when we are guessing the answers for exam questions. They are never sure of the answers until they are proven answers. The actual, definite answers will come from the lecturers, not us.

Don't react to what we only have in our head! They are merely hypotheses, not proven to be true yet and yet, we respond to it, and we end up regretting what we have done. We always bump with the phrase; don't ever make any decision when you are angry, right?

However, this is what we always do and can't afford to avoid it, or at least we always think that we can't. People do self-thinking a thousand times a day and we keep thinking and thinking to the extent that we cannot differentiate the thoughts to be the truths or merely imaginations.

We have the monologue sessions, mostly in a negative way that makes us believe that others are wrong because we know ourselves, we know we are right! Are we sure we are right and no one is better than us?

For example, when I feel that this girl hates me so much and whatever she does in her life is telling me how much she hates me. This is untrue because she never tells me how much she hates me. It is not that she hurts me. No. It is merely a prediction, a sensitivity that influences my mind.

We cannot be too sure of what we feel. Okay? Be sure of something before you start responding to things in such a way that brings you to one baseless problem which you will never know how to solve. :)

Ok. Dah panjang sangat nampak. Kalau Muja ada mood Muja buat sequel. Sorry sangat for those yang jadi mangsa kepanasan hati Muja yang dah lama terpendam dengan segala anggapan-anggapan yang tak betul yang diberikan kepada Muja. Panas sangat hati ni hari ni membawa kepada bergenangnya air mata membasahi pipi. Puuuiiiii sangat kan ayat? Hahahaha!!! :P

Keep loving, stop hating xoxo